Childhood: Path of Our Future

Rishabh was worried about Aayush’s overall behaviour at home. He also discussed this concern with his wife, Riya. Aayush is the 15-year-old child of these stressed parents. Both of them are working parents. The maid, Nilam, manages the household and tends to the needs of 15-year-old Aayush.

Life for Aayush is a mix of excitement and challenges. Aayush has some habits that are not so great, though. He likes to do things his way and sometimes gets into trouble with the adults in town. Homework and chores are like a puzzle for him. Aayush also tends to make choices that worry the people at home, like taking risks that make everyone hold their breath. As the neighbours and Nilam whisper about his life, they’re all hoping Aayush can figure things out and turn his story around for the better.

On a quiet Sunday morning, Riya and Rishabh engaged in a thoughtful conversation about Aayush’s future. They pondered over the stream he might choose for admission, the college that would be the best fit, and the ideal degree for his aspirations. The air was filled with anticipation as they shared their insights and hopes for Aayush’s educational journey. Aayush listened to their conversation, got involved directly, and started adding his points. After all, this conversation was going to decide his future. 

Rishabh got angry and shouted at him, saying, “You, dumbest child, are not allowed to speak while elders are talking.” Aayush went directly to his room, crying and locking himself. He was not eating for the next 2–3 days, as he was not even considering his own life decisions.

Parents play a vital role in shaping their children’s behavior and teaching them good habits. Through effective behavior techniques, parents can guide their children towards positive behavior at home and in school. By setting clear expectations, enforcing consistent consequences, and modeling good behavior themselves, parents can help their children develop socially, emotionally, and academically. It is crucial for parents to strike a balance between discipline and love, considering their child’s individual needs and temperament. Creating a supportive and nurturing environment is key to fostering good behavior and personal growth.

In today’s lifestyle, most parents stay out of work and do not get enough time to spend with their children. Hence, children lack discipline, good habits, and overall excellence in life. Parents are unaware of their child’s likes and dislikes or if a child is facing any challenges in life. A child spends their time on their mobile phone when they just start talking or understanding words. Hence, we require additional activities to open ourselves up. We have lost the true essence of family. A non-traditional family structure or separation has caused a silent, challenging childhood in every home.

Here, we will discuss the most important things to remember when raising a child with great deeds. Every child is the future of your family and the country and it is in unmolded form

Listen to your child:

Listening to your child is a cornerstone of effective and nurturing parenting. It goes beyond hearing words; it involves active engagement and understanding. When you truly listen to your child, you create an environment where they feel valued and heard, fostering a healthy parent-child relationship. It allows them to express their thoughts, concerns, and emotions, promoting emotional well-being.

Feed with great thoughts and manners:

Feeding your child with great thoughts and manners involves instilling positive values and behaviours from an early age. Just as we nourish their bodies with nutritious food, we should also nourish their minds with positive ideas and manners. This includes teaching them about kindness, empathy, and respect for others. By fostering a positive mental environment, you contribute to the development of a well-rounded and socially conscious individual. Both listening and feeding with positive thoughts and manners are key elements in shaping a child’s growth and building a foundation for a happy and fulfilling life.

Educate a Child:

Educating your child is a lifelong commitment that extends beyond the classroom. It involves fostering a love of learning, curiosity, and critical thinking skills. As a parent, you play a crucial role in providing educational support, encouraging exploration, and instilling a sense of wonder about the world. This holistic approach to education contributes to a child’s intellectual and emotional development, preparing them for the challenges and opportunities life presents.:

Communication brightens Life:

Communication is the key to understanding and being understood. Encourage an open and honest dialogue with your child, creating an environment where they feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings. By communicating everything, you establish trust and strengthen the parent-child bond. This open line of communication is essential for navigating challenges, building resilience, and promoting emotional well-being.

Good Habits in the Early Days of Life:

Instilling good habits in the early days of life lays the foundation for a healthy and disciplined lifestyle. From basic routines like regular sleep patterns and balanced nutrition to cultivating positive behaviours, such as responsibility and empathy, these habits contribute to a child’s overall well-being and character development. Early exposure to positive habits sets the stage for a lifetime of healthy choices and personal growth.

Limited Social or Device life:

In the age of technology and social media, it’s important to strike a balance and keep social and device interactions limited. While technology has its advantages, excessive screen time can impede social development and physical well-being. Encourage real-world social interactions, outdoor activities, and a healthy balance between virtual and offline experiences. This approach fosters a well-rounded upbringing, ensuring that your child develops both in the digital and tangible realms.

In conclusion, fostering the growth and development of your child involves a multifaceted approach, encompassing education, communication, instilling positive habits, and managing digital engagement.

In parenting, our role is not only to provide for our children but also to actively participate in shaping their character and preparing them for the complexities of life.

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A Pinch of Spirituality May Turn Failure Into Fortune

I believe it’s crucial for each of us to shoulder responsibility for our lives. We all engage in an unavoidable struggle with ourselves, experiencing setbacks before we taste success. If you decide to rise once more and make another attempt, you effectively triumph over failure, significantly increasing your chances of attaining your goals. 

Our focus today is on the journey from ‘Failure to Fortune’ (F to F). We’ve outlined the steps required to navigate this path toward abundance. 

The first and most important step is to find your supreme power. It can be anything you believe in, like any god, the universe, or a person you admire. If you have not found it, relax. You can start believing in the sky or a universe and if you don’t know what it looks like, Google it. 

The Google definition of the universe is all of space and time and their contents, including planets, stars, galaxies, and all other forms of matter and energy. Once you find your ‘Supreme Power’, you will start bringing prosperity into your lives. 

Now the second step is to start giving existence to your superpower by believing and talking to it. Whatever you have is because of the grace of your supreme power. Whatever you want, discuss it. Whenever you desire something, close your eyes and feel as if your supreme power is fulfilling your desire.

Visualize Your success and Manifest Your Destiny

A supreme power has it’s own language. The universe only understands the language of your emotions, not words. 

You might get confused; let me explain it. You will have to first clear your emotional state in order to work on it. Assuming you desire a new house, create an emotional state where you already have one. 

You will have a clear vision of your new house, the place it is surrounded by, the interior and overall, your new house. Here, if you are only saying that you want to buy a house, it will not work.

Visualization plays a vital role in this. You will have to visualize your new house the way you want it to be. The universe (your supreme power) will start working towards your desire. 

Understand the Language of Energy

The supreme power at play is within you—your thoughts and your emotional state. You may not yet realize the incredible influence of your own thoughts. A constant in our environment is the presence of vibration, energy, or power. 

When we connect positively with someone, we often say, ‘We vibe’, signifying our energy alignment and our affection for one another. The key takeaway here is that our lives are a direct reflection of our emotional state.

We need to focus on a single goal at the initial stage, as you need to believe in your supreme power. Feel like it gives you everything you wish for and start working on it. 

Create a list of your wants and start visualizing. You just need to spend 5-10 minutes on your desires. You need to first accept the fact that you have received everything you wished for. Think only about the things you desire.

Significance of Desires in Shaping Life

Throughout this entire journey, it is absolutely crucial for you to have unwavering belief in yourself. You must carry yourself with the conviction that you have already attained your goals—act, speak, and think accordingly. 

Your self-perception shapes your reality, much like a person with a positive mindset tends to find happiness in life. Once you shift your mindset and truly believe in the life you desire, you’ll begin to manifest all that you wish for. 

Think of your life as a canvas, and you, the artist, have the power to create a masterpiece through your desires and actions.

In this journey from failure to fortune, it becomes evident that every step revolves around you, and the external world holds little sway over your destiny. It’s a profound realization that underscores the importance of self-belief and personal mastery in shaping one’s life. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this article and if you wish to stay updated on our future articles, please click on ‘Stay Connected’ to receive notifications.

“Look back at the fortune, you left behind”

Before starting with this article, I want you to take a pause and think about your daily routine. I want you to keep a qualitative approach to your life. Wait, don’t get confused; just think about the things you do from the time you wake up till the time you sleep. The things you face on a daily basis, the environment, or the people you be with—everything. Also, you will think about the lifestyle your parents or grandparents used to live and try to find a difference between the lifestyles.

I bet you everything has changed in the past 30-40 years. Let’s talk about the major lifestyle changes we encountered. Our parents were struggling or were creating the lifestyle we live now. So, we are living a stable lifestyle from all perspectives. Obviously, we are all also struggling with our own battles, but when we consider our lifestyle, we are living a better lifestyle as compared with our parents.

The second major difference is that education is easily available right now, and our parents are hardly completing their graduations. There are exceptions, but still, they used to struggle a lot to complete their studies. But in our generation, the first priority for a child is to complete high school. 

The third major difference is that our parents did not have big TVs at home, OTT Media service subscriptions, Wi-Fi connections, mobile phones, or laptops at home. Almost all of us have these facilities. 

Now that we understand the differences in our lifestyles, we may conclude that we live a much better lifestyle than our parents. For eg: If I am craving a special cuisine, I can order it online or If I want to buy a new phone, laptop, or anything else, I can buy it directly. I don’t need to wait for the weekend or save money to buy it next quarter. 

Now, the question we need to answer is Are we really happy or satisfied after having all the facilities or a better life than the previous generation? Are we really enjoying our lives? Do we live life to the fullest? The question is really worth thinking about—finding the answer and the reason behind it.

Have you ever wondered why we are not satisfied or happy even after having all the things a life requires? 

Let’s discuss this:

Patience cultivates strength and wisdom:

I think getting everything done easily has made us impatient. We have lost one of the most important qualities of life, which is patience. We easily get frustrated or angry when something is not done on time.

If we fail the first time or twice, we give up. And, unfortunately, if anything takes longer, the result will be perfection. You can observe the things around you. 

We should always challenge ourselves to increase our patience. Don’t try to be in rush if you can wait for the things to happen. Always keep control of not initiating any kind of argument or fight, this will also increase your level of patience in life.

Consistency breeds success over time:

Another thing our generation needs to focus on is consistency. If you are doing something on a daily basis for a long period of time, you are already a master at it. So, if you want something to be better, try doing it on a daily basis.

Consistency is the most important factor in success. As we get better day-by-day if we practice it daily. You may fail once, twice, or more than that, but the final result is fruitful.

Allow yourself to fail but give yourself enough time to be consistent. Try to consciously do something consistently like adding exercise or running on a daily basis.

A thorough review enhances overall understanding:

We all have some thoughts, dreams, or goals, but why is it difficult to achieve anything in life? The most crucial thing to do to bring anything to a successful conclusion is to review it. The bitter truth is that success takes time; overnight success is a myth. And most of us do not follow what we decide and change either our routes or destinations, which has a big impact on our lives. It’s not always about goals or dreams; it’s about life. So we should keep the habit of reviewing everything in life. We should be aware of our own habits, the food we eat, our work, our knowledge, and everything else. We should review, and make changes accordingly. Slowly, you will develop discipline and achieve everything you wish for. 

Keep a weekly, Monthly or quarterly review of everything. Your each goal should be written on a paper and reviewed it in order to make necessary changes and achieve it.

Kindness spreads warmth and connection:

Another important factor our generation has lost is kindness. We are all so frustrated with our own lives, we are not able to give. We all keep fighting to get more in life, but the forgotten fact is that we only get something when we start giving it. Showing love and compassion towards everyone will only bring more positivity into your life. After all, the only thing that creates a better self within is how you treat others.

Being kind for no reason will help you to achieve this. Keep your mind free. Spread as much as love and kindness you can. Be nice for no reason, this will refresh your mood.

So these are some of the things we should never forget, even if we get everything in life. We’re eager to learn about your life’s journey. For more insightful content, click on “stay connected” and explore similar topics.